Lilies of Love
Nourish & Vibe Guest Author.
We’ve all heard the same advice after a major breakup: “Take time for yourself,” “Reconnect with your inner self,” or “Find yourself again.”
Independence is empowering—it’s what we’ve fought for, what we’ve earned. But sometimes, it feels like we’re standing in a league of our own, asking ourselves: have we become too independent?
The roads of the Greater Malé Area are a constant test of patience, skill, and, often, luck. Congestion is the norm, not the exception, and navigating through the traffic feels like a challenge, no matter your mode of transport. As someone still in my youth, I find myself gripping the handlebars or the steering wheel with my heart in my hands every time I set out. But as I contemplate this chaotic reality, one question keeps gnawing at me: Is this the city where one can grow old peacefully, surrounded by calm, rather than chaos?
Limerence hit me out of nowhere, and suddenly I was swept up in an emotional whirlwind that left me feeling both euphoric and utterly confused. I was deep under its spell, unable to understand what was happening to me. It felt like love, but it was different—more intense, more consuming, and far more disorienting. My thoughts were constantly preoccupied with the object of my affection, and I found it impossible to think straight. This overwhelming longing and obsessive thinking took over my life, leaving me questioning my own emotions and struggling to maintain a sense of normalcy.
Recently, I tweeted something that sparked a heated debate: "Maldives is a shit country to be a woman." The response from many men trying to invalidate my statement left me furious, and here's why.
As Eid approaches, the excitement for the upcoming holidays is palpable! Here are some beautiful islands you can visit this Eid that will give you the best memories. The beauty of belonging to the Maldives is that the endless natural beaches and see-through clear blue waters are always surrounding us. Here are some of the best local gems for a perfect holiday:
We've all had those mornings: you wake up feeling crappy, lacking energy, and the thought of facing the day's responsibilities feels overwhelming. Yet, the world doesn't stop for anyone's bad mood. In these moments, I've discovered a simple yet effective way to turn my day around, which is dressing up for how I want to feel.
The term "mother wound" may not be one that you've heard often, but its impact is profound. It's the emotional scar left by unmet needs, neglected feelings, and unresolved pain in our relationships with our mothers. Whether our mothers were absent, emotionally unavailable, or even abusive, the effects of this wound can ripple through our lives, shaping our sense of self and our relationships with others.
I recently watched "The Way We Were," probably for the second time, and I loved it even more than the first time I watched it. I mean, why wouldn’t I, a hopeless romantic, love this movie so much? Not to mention how dashing Redford is/was and also how beautiful the infamous song ‘Memories’ by Barbara Streisand really is.
Eid is a time of joyous celebration and reflection for Muslims around the world. It marks the end of Ramadan, the holy month of fasting and spiritual rejuvenation. As families gather to observe this auspicious occasion, there are numerous aspects of Eid that bring happiness and fulfillment to our lives. From the anticipation of getting a new dress and planning a trip with family or friends to the joy of exchanging gifts and relishing in delicious food, Eid encompasses a multitude of cherished traditions and values that make it truly special.
Love can be one of the most beautiful experiences in life. It fills our hearts with joy, makes us feel alive, and gives us hope for a brighter future. But sometimes, despite our best efforts, we find ourselves in situations where the feelings aren't mutual. It's painful and confusing, but recognizing the signs that *“He's Just Not That Into You”*, can save you from heartache in the long run.
Recognizing the signs of stress is crucial for maintaining mental well-being in today's fast-paced world. Feeling overwhelmed is often the first indication that stress is creeping in. Whether it's the relentless pace of work or the demands of daily life, it's easy to become tangled by the sheer volume of tasks and responsibilities.
An in-depth interview with Sha'aa, the General Manager of the recently established Therapy Center.
Growing up with zero boundaries and a people-pleasing persona, learning to set boundaries as an adult was an incredibly challenging journey for me. Saying "no" was the hardest thing to do, but I soon realized that not having boundaries was destroying my sense of self and well-being. I frequently found myself in situations I didn't want to be in, doing things I didn't enjoy, simply because I lacked the ability to assert my own preferences.
Firstly, let's look at what an "ick" is. An "ick" is an involuntary moment of realization that completely alters your feelings for someone. They are rather personal yet definitely irrational and off-putting moments that change your feelings for the person entirely. If anything, an ick is a less red, rather pink flag that will cause you to run as fast, and sometimes even faster than a red flag will (because, let's face it, how red is red sometimes? And we are rather blind to the red).
